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hey /docta/
I don't know if it's me being silly and jealous or not but i need your opinion on this.
I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for nearly a year now.
and back in October i found out that my boyfriend had been cuddling with this other girl he met in college.
He told me he wasn't going to have her over his house anymore and would stop being so friendly with her, i don't mind if he wants to be friends with her i just asked him not to have her over his house anymore and i trusted him not to do that.
But i found out that he still has her over his house.
Am i being stupid and jealous? or is it wrong that he keeps having her over his house?
I don't know how to talk to him about it again cause i feel like I'm just bringing up the same conversation all the time and that it's gonna annoy him for bringing it up again.
i feel like i can't trust him and it feels horrible. I AM VERY MUCH SADDENED BY THIS
What do i do?

]]> http://www.99chan.org/docta/res/33766.html#33784you are ready man. Don't worry about being a virgin at 17. It's not weird at all. Basically if you don't want to fuck someone, don't fuck them.

My little brother's 19 and still a virgin and most people consider him a pretty cool dude.

]]> http://www.99chan.org/docta/res/33766.html#33783
Because most people don't enjoy sex. They do it because they want it, need it, think it'll make them more of a man/woman, want to say physically that they love their partner, want to fit in, want to whatever. Just fo have sex, have fun, get your rocks off, and try not to do anything stupid like sleep with someone diseased without a condom.

I lost my virginity at 12 years old, with a 10 year old. In a bathroom. It lasted maybe 30 seconds because we didn't know what the hell we were doing. If you really think you'd be better off being like me, then by all means cast off your virginity like an unwanted shirt. But, really, it doesn't matter.

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I'm some pretty nasty stuff right now /docta/. I posted her before about some girl I loved very deeply for almost three years a while back. She just cut me out of her life for no good reason that I am aware of. She was a nut, and really weird. We were perfect for each other. And It's been like six months since I've last spoken to her. Just over a month ago I met this other girl that I really thought was hot at first, and I fell in like with her. She liked me back and I was infatuated for a while, and I knew it wasn't love, but I took it as a sign that love would come eventually. But now my feelings have already sort of died out for her. We were each others first sexual partner, but I just don't feel anything deep. As it stands I've got plans to go hang out with a friend of mine tomorrow that I've come close to getting involved with, but each time I stop myself because I know it wouldn't be right. We're better of as friends (me and the old friend, not the current girlfriend). I haven't told my girlfriend about my plans and I don't think I will because it will cause problems, I've ditched the other friend so many times over the past month, and I just feel it's finally ok to just go visit her, lest I become to her what my first love was to me. And this wall of text isn't getting any shorter, but such is the nature of emotions transformed into words.
In short, I don't know what to trust inside of myself right now. I've got just enough of a valid argument and internal proof to go in each and every direction I can think of. Halp

]]> http://www.99chan.org/docta/res/33766.html#33781
Doesn't really matter which you do. Society screws up our heads so bad toward sex; it's not the Christmas-morning experience its made out to be.

]]> http://www.99chan.org/docta/res/33765.html#33780- Aquarium
- Download movies illegally and watch them at your house ^^

]]> http://www.99chan.org/docta/res/33755.html#33779>>33758
It's really the fact that I don't want to screw anything up. My last relationship lasted a year and a half without ANY intimacy what so ever (yay for religion!) I just start to over-think, then just get nervous as to what is actually happening. Yet it's easy as pie to get an erection when just making out or grinding so at that point it becomes really frustrating on my part.

>>33762
Glad to know it happened to someone else.
The imagery also made me lol

Thanks both of you.

]]> http://www.99chan.org/docta/res/33765.html#33778
Pick any activity you enjoy really.

]]> http://www.99chan.org/docta/res/33751.html#33777>>33776
You lie like a stony hippie in an old Volkswagen van.

]]> http://www.99chan.org/docta/res/33751.html#33776>>33772

Look at my name bitch, I am the master of zen and carefully worded statements.

]]> http://www.99chan.org/docta/res/33765.html#33775>Cook her food. Cook with her. Hold her tight and kiss her in the foyer of your house and have sex on the threshold.

We do this :D (just replace house with apartment. I wish I had a home! I'd sell it to pay for school.)

I wanna take her out though, cause we do that a lot.

Beach umbrella sounds not bad.

]]> http://www.99chan.org/docta/res/33765.html#33774with her. Hold her tight and kiss her in the foyer of your house and have sex on the threshold.

Do whatever you'd like!

]]> http://www.99chan.org/docta/res/33766.html#33773
Then realize that this is all in your head. What's more important to you? To lose your virginity now to whoever, or later to someone who you care about more deeply?

Logic will be your guide.

]]> http://www.99chan.org/docta/res/33751.html#33772>>33770
Easy, just let her do the talking. Ask lots of questions, feign interest, then ask more questions about whatever it is she just said. Saves you from having to say much. Also, activities where you don't have to talk at all and give you a central thing to discuss later (movies for example) are a good bet.

>>33771
Oh give it a rest white knight, as if you've never made a judgement on someone based on all of nothing. 'Look at that fatty hipster douche', 'haha what a faggot!'

]]> http://www.99chan.org/docta/res/33751.html#33771

some bitch seriously? You've never met her, and yet you compartmentalize her as some bitch. Whatever that vague term even means in this context.

Didn't your mom ever tell you not to judge a book by its cover?

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