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I've been lurking and posting on /docta/ for some time now. One thing I've noticed is that the same questions get asked over and over again. What are good places to meet women? How do I approach a woman? How do I avoid the friendzone? Etc etc etc ...

So here's what I'm thinking: we make a thread compiling all of our knowledge on how to meet women and start relationships (whether romantic or purely sexual).

Write out everything you know about picking up chicks. We'll compile the ultimate /docta/ thread about the basics of meeting attractive members of the opposite sex. Maybe we can even get it stickied. That way, when someone poor anon comes in here , instead of asking "Where/how do I meet women?" for the millionth time, they can just read this thread. We won't have to constantly answer the same questions.

So let's get this ball rolling, doctas. My contribution will follow.

Well, apparently my girlfriend of two years doesn't love me anymore.

She's the one who started the relationship (she thought I was cute or some shit since 9th grade but I never payed attention to her until 11th when we started going out) and we were happy for a long time, about a few months over a year.

We were tight, we would have sex a lot, as teenagers do, she used to be a nympho sort of, not like a whore, but she would want it just as much as me.

Then, she went on accutane (an acne prescription drug even though she never really had any more acne than the normal person) and she was also on bc, and she slowly stopped wanting to have sex. We would do it less and less and she would only do it out of guilt basically (although when we DO have sex she loves it...).

Now, we're both in the same college and she's becoming ever more distant, emotion wise. I ask her what she feels towards me and she says she doesn't know. This happened progressively and she would tell me it was because of her drugs, but once she got off them she would get better. Now she's been off accutane for a month or two and off bc for almost a month and it seems to just have gotten worse.

Right now it seems like a break up is inevitable, but I'm not ready for it yet. I still like her a lot and I don't understand why she feels so incredibly different now. I also have no good friends that I could talk to about this, and so I'm fucked. If any of you have words of wisdom it would help a lot probably, I hope.

P.S. Do any of you think a relationship like this is salvageable?

Pic not related, I just like cake.

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Hey /docta/ I'm 19 and don't know shit about females, ever since I can remember I've been shy. I also have been diagnosed with social anxiety and OCD. Spent years reading on internet, bunch of shit, do this, do that, women are this women are that. Been feeling depressed lately, even online I can't really talk to girls, I never know what they think about me, and I have too much anxiety in person. Sometimes I think I will always be alone while others continue to have success with the opposite sex.

I tend to think about suicide a lot recently...

Advice to get out of this rut?

Could not ever being in a relationship damage me mentally somehow? Will this effect my ability to consummate a relationship a girl in the future?

I recall reading an article on MSN covering this very topic several years ago. I don't really remember much of what it said, but I remembered reading it last night before I went to bed and it got me thinking.

As I am nearly twenty and have never had a girlfriend, I've become worried. I've been dreaming about having a girlfriend since I was thirteen, and I still think about it daily; however, there is also some level of disgust that I feel within myself when imaging a relationship. I don't know if I can make it work, or that I would be willing to dedicate myself to a person like that.

I know all of you are going to tell me to go out and try this for myself, but— I am wondering how this will effect me in the future. Is there any hope for me?

Any thoughts on this are appreciated. I hope I've expressed my situation enough for you to get a grasp of what I am dealing with.

So, I made a discovery today, thought I'd share it with you all.

So, I really like this girl a couple months ago, right? And, I'm a really nice guy, just forwarning. And she puts me in the friend zone. Sucks at first, but I get over it, whatever, no big deal now. Don't get me wrong, I still like this girl, but now, like, I just don't care. I know it's over, and I accept that, and understand it and such, you know?

So, She and I are hanging out, and she's with another one of her friends as well. It's a guy. His name is Jacob. Real cool guy. At first, I thought she liked him. She may, for all I know, but after tonight, I don't think she does.

So, this guy is a really nice guy, alright. I see a lot of myself in him really. We're at Wal*Mart right, and she see's those tins of popcorn right, and she's like "Oh man! Those are so awesome!" So, he walks over, and picks one up, and walks back. Then she said "oh, you should have gotten the one with puppy dogs on it. Then he walks over, grabs one with puppy dogs on it, and then she said said "Oh, you should have grabbed the other one with puppy dogs on it" So, he grabs the other one.

I said "You should have grabbed the one with the snowmen on it" And she said "But puppy dogs are so much cooler" and he said "yeah, and she doesn't like snowmen" (which I know, of course, I know this girl a lot better than this guy lol) Then I said "thats why I would have grabbed that one"

Then, somehow, he turned around, and she turned to me, and said "yeah he should have gotten the snowmen"

Make note, I'm very open, and she and I have talked a lot, about how we wouldn't work, and she told me it was because I was to nice, and she didn't want to boss someone around, she wants someone to boss her around.

This is just one of the many things that he was doing, that I had done, and I saw how it was all wrong.

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This is a question to the girls on here. If you were having a great night with a guy and you ended up going back to your/his place and once you got naked you saw he had back hair would you not let him have sex with you?

What would be the best way to get someone who is in love with me back into the friendzone without crushing that person entirely?

A young lady told me yesterday that I was a foolish person for not dancing with her friend on Wednesday (Flip yes for drinking all week). I barely grasp the concept of dancing as it is, just sort of moving my arms and legs for a bit like a spaz, how do I dance with foreign type?

Just face the fuckers? I don't think this should even be a thread but it probably makes a nice change from 'docta, I loves her but won't ask her out'.

I love my boyfriend. He's smart, romantic, and annoying. It's just, sometimes I think I'm not good enough to be in a relationship with him. As far as I know, which is repeated on a daily basis and through small things he does for me, he loves me too. I feel as if I am holding him back in some way, since we go to two different universities. I would never even CONSIDER cheating on him, and I trust him enough to know he will not, but at the same time, I feel horrible because college is supposed to be comprised of many 'wild' nights. I love partying, and do so without the waking-up-to-random-strangers part. But, /docta/, how do I know if he feels the same? Should I be worried about him regreting the relationship, or just disregard this thought completely?